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A Spiritual Approach to Women
Would Change the World Positively
Humans while on earth are in a place to take one of two opposite
directions. The Holy Qur'an says:
The blind and the seeing
are not alike; Nor are the depths of Darkness and the Light; Nor are the
(chilly) shade and the (genial) heat of the sun: Nor are alike those that are
living and those that are dead. (HQ: 35: 19-22)
Islamic spirituality teaches that
attaining seeing, Light, living is possible when humans are in a state of
spiritual Balance. Balance implies full freedom from attachment to whatever is
transient, limited and relative. The path to realize inward and outward Balance
is a central topic around which many teachings of Islam revolve and within which
we can understand many issues including that of women.
The recommended Balance as the Holy Qur'an
uncovers is an attribute of the relation between Heaven and Earth. Humans are
qualified for manifesting because they have similar attributes.
And the Firmament has He
raised high, and He has set up the Balance (of Justice), In order that ye may
not transgress (due) balance. So establish weight with justice and fall not
short in the balance. (HQ: 55: 7-10).
Because attaining Balance is such a long
spiritual journey, Moslems are directed to seek God's support to be guided to
the straight Way. Prophet Mohammad implicitly points to Balance when guiding his
followers saying, the best in any matter is the midpoint (Al-Amr Al-Wasat).
Lack of Balance leads to transgression for
several reasons and on many levels. The Holy Qur'an points to those who wrong
themselves when they do not give the spiritual side in them the chance to grow
truly. Consequently they practice injustices toward others.
Shall Humankind learn
from their mistakes?
While starting a new millenium there is a
looming hope that our planet is more ready for a kind of Balance on several
levels. Humans seem to be discovering that the tremendous scientific and
technological achievements of the last decades need to be balanced by equal
interest in considering the spiritual side of humans. Within that spiritual
upsurge humans would find it a necessity to read the spiritual inheritance
endowed to earth afresh to filter the teachings from the accumulated
misconceptions and confusions. The apology that Pope John Paul II gave on 12th,
March, 2000 for "the faults of the past" is very indicative. Among so many
things, he mentioned a "confession of sins against the dignity of women and the
unity of human race". He says, "Lord, God, our Father, you created the human
being, man and woman, in your image and likeness and you willed the diversity of
peoples within the unity of the human family. At times, however, the equality of
your sons and daughters has not been acknowledged, and Christians have been
guilty of attitudes of rejection and exclusion, consenting to acts of
discrimination on the basis of racial and ethnic differences. Forgive us and
give the grace to heal the wounds still present ..".3
Regardless of the content of the apology,
the event itself discloses a VERY SIGNIFICANT fact: humans are susceptible to
make grave mistakes under the label of religion, and their slips trigger
catastrophic oppressions. There is a dire need (for ALL including Moslems) to
avoid making the same faults repeatedly. One way of avoiding fatal mistakes is
to purify our hearts continually, know more about the truths of life, go through
experiences to learn, and accordingly revise our readings of Divine Scripture
always. It is a process that would never come to an end. The moment we stop all
our thoughts turn into dogmas and new idols.
Can we read the Holy
Qur'an more detachedly?
Hence the approach suggested herein for
rediscovering women's way of expressing the Divine is based on an attempt of
reading the teachings of Islam anew with pure heart and mind. The Holy Qur'an
mentions frequently that being a pious Servant of God means expressing wo/man's
faith in the Unseen through righteous work. In other words, balance in all
aspects of life is realized when:
1-humans are aware of themselves as
spirits and, accordingly, learn how to live free from the shades and illusions
of matter.
2-one way of keeping up spiritual freedom
is to be keen on making the best use of all God's endowments to them.
When humans learn how to be transformed
spiritually their approach to life would pursue freedom from all aspects of
discriminations and transgressions. And when they ceaselessly learn through
science and all branches of knowledge new truths of life, they are not victims
to superstitions of any kind. As much as this is a general method that applies
to many topics, it is very relevant to all the issues related to women.
This paper investigates how to make good
use of reading the teachings of Islam anew in a way that helps women themselves,
men, different Moslem societies and also non-Moslems, if interested, handle the
role of women in life from a different perspective where the focus is on
attaining Balance. Balance is nothing to be realized once and for all but rather
cherished forever. Balance = freedom +knowledge + justice. With every new added
variable, the same equation would produce infinite models of application
continuously, on both the individual and societal levels. The following are
primary points that can serve in building up an overall strategy based upon an
Islamic Sufi approach.
1-Womanhood is an
honored truth, and not a barrier to spiritual perfection.
Islam calls first and foremost upon
humans to free themselves from the limitations of matter. They are guided to see
the oneness beyond differentiation and diversity in creation. This is the way to
perceive the truths of Spirit and the harmony of all laws controlling aspects of
life. When they do they, men and women equally, can feel a shared potentiality
of the innate will that makes them capable of growing spiritually. This truth
can be traced in the Holy Qur'an when reminding people of the one origin of
humanity saying,
"O mankind! Reverence your
Lord Who created you from one Soul" (HQ: 4: 1)
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The same meaning is deduced in a verse
quoting the Divine saying,
"I will not waste the
striving of any of you, male or female, you are one from another" (HQ: 3: 195).
Reading the basic laws of spiritual
attainment as revealed in the Holy Qur'an it is safely deduced that the
difference of gender is not a deciding factor:
If any do deeds of
righteousness, - be they male or female - and have faith, they will enter
Heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.(HQ: 4: 124) & (HQ: 16:
97)
One Day shalt thou see the
believing men and the believing women; How their Light runs forward before them
and by their right hands: (HQ: 57: 12)
With full awareness that diversities in
the physical realm serve a divine Truth, Sufis believe that the 'apparent' (of
any aspect of life) is a reflection of the 'hidden' (the spiritual dimension).
"Femininity", accordingly, is perceived in Sufi literature as reflecting the
"good soul" in every human being that contains the "seed of divinity within" and
makes it grow healthily. "Masculinity" likewise is the symbol of the "water of
life" transmitted from heaven to earth to irrigate the divine seed within. When
the "good land" in a human receives God's Grace, the divine seed within is
transformed into a "new birth". In other words the Sufi literature reflects an
understanding that "fruitfulness" or "attainment of real life" takes place
through causes and effects within and without. They point to something like what
Jesus mentions when saying, "you must be born again". Sufis actually use an
allegory similar also to what Jesus used in his parables when telling his
disciples,
"he that received seed
into the good ground is he that heareth the word, and understandeth it; which
also beareth fruit, and bringeth forth, some an hundredfold, some sixty, some
thirty" (M't:13:23).
The Holy Qur'an mentions frequently the
assimilation between the laws of humans' gaining real life and the laws of
planting.
And among His Signs in
this: thou seest the earth barren and desolate; but when We send down rain to
it, it is stirred to life and yields increase. (HQ: 41: 39).
Women who are Teachers
of Humanity
With that truth in mind and heart Galal el
Din Rumi metaphorically says that every human being can be Mary, the Lady
Virgin. She is a symbol of the most purified soul that deserved receiving the
Grace of God, manifested in the Holy Spirit so the divinity within her gave
birth to Jesus, the Word. The Holy Qur'an points to that truth implying the
law of spiritual growth that Mary was in harmony with.
"O Mary! Allah hath chosen
thee and purified thee, chosen thee above the women of all nations.(HQ: 3: 42)
And Mary, the daughter of
'Imran, who guarded her chastity; and We breathed into (her body) of Our spirit;
and she testified to the truth of the words of her Lord and of his Revelations,
and was one of the devout (Servants).(HQ: 66: 12)
The Prophet Mohammad describes Mary as on
the top of "perfected" women adding to her Fatima, his daughter, Khadiga, his
wife and Asia, the wife of Pharaoh. The latter is mentioned in the Holy Qur'an
as an example to those who believe:
behold she said: "O my
Lord! Build for me, in nearness to Thee, a mansion in the Garden, and save me
from Pharaoh and his doings, and save me from those that do wrong (unjust)";
(HQ: 66: 11).
Contemplating why those honored ladies are
mentioned as "perfected", we easily deduce that "perfection" is related to
spiritual purity; a very lofty degree of spiritual consciousness. Lady Mary the
Virgin was a symbol of purity that made her that honored. Khadiga, the wife of
Prophet Mohammad is also a symbol of purity in another dimension. She discerned
before any revelation, that Prophet Mohammad is God's Grace. Namely, she
believed in him even before any revelations. When the Revelation took place, she
not only believed Prophet Mohammad's episode with Gabriel promptly, but also
reassured and caressed him by love and care. She was a true wife with all the
spiritual implications that the word "wife" symbolizes; she was part of Prophet
Mohammad himself. Fatima al Zahraa, Prophet Mohammad's daughter is also a symbol
of how purity flourishes overwhelmingly. She is Fatima, an Arabic name which
means, "free from any taint", and Zahraa means the "flowering" one, forever. Her
name is a symbol in itself that spiritual flourishing is a meaning and a truth
that transcends genders. Prophet Mohammad says, " Fatima, my daughter is part of
me, what angers her angers me, and what angers me angers God". It is not a
matter of bias of any kind whatsoever. It is an explanation of the fact that
Fatima is a symbol of a perfect soul when s/he lives free from serving any
illusion. S/he becomes part of the Divine Light. Asia, the wife of Pharaoh was
that free because she could understand that her husband was a transgressor and
was unjust to himself and others. She chose for herself real life and freedom of
spirit by "nearness to" God and praying Him for support "save me from Pharaoh
and his doings, and save me from those that do wrong(the unjust)". She was
spiritually free enough not to sacrifice the eternal life for the temporal one.
The eternal life means closeness to the Divine, "Build for me, in nearness to
Thee, a mansion in the Garden." Asia, was all freed not only from the "external"
Pharaoh but, more importantly, from the Pharaoh within.
Another example that clarifies that being
a woman does not hinder being an exemplar to all humans, not only to women, is
the story of Hajar, the wife of Ibrahim and the mother of Ismael. Her shuttle
between Safa and Marwa mounts near the Ka'aba, looking for a source of water for
her small child to drink became part of the ritual of pilgrimage Haj in Islam.
Her shuttle became an eternal symbol for the trust in God as expressed in strife
for finding the means of attaining life. The fruit of her shuttle was the
emergence of pure water of zamzam; a symbol of the water of life when sent to
the searching soul. It bursts from the blessed land.
To sum up, when reading
the teachings of Islam with no influence whatsoever of the accumulated cultural
misconceptions, we can see that they do not claim any spiritual or mental
superiority of men over women for the mere sake of biological differentiation.
The criteria of judging are always related to the degree of spiritual purity of
any human in general and the extent to which s/he is spiritually free from the
limitations of matter. The honored and perfected women that the Prophet mentions
are exemplars to all humanity, men and women.
2-Sufi awareness
enhances a new scope for women's self-image.
Self-images often decide the focus of
humans' whole life directly or indirectly. Self-images that are imposed
externally by societies, parents, cultural backgrounds and/or misconceptions of
religious teachings have been leading humans usually to internalize illusive
models that they try to fit in. In such cases humans are driven away from their
true potentials and deprived from inner freedom. Being distracted from listening
to the voice of the divine within, they fall victims to being captured in the
physical differentiation. Accordingly they are apt to regard the male/female
relationship from the perspective of competition, domination, exploitation.
Gender discrimination is the fruit of a distorted approach to the ultimate cause
of all humanity. Women, sometimes reduce their image of themselves into
prototypes assigned to them through cultural dogmas and stagnant tradition.
Islamic teachings, when focusing on
calling humans to be Servants of God, are liberating them from loyalty to any
transient dimension whatsoever. Islamic teachings uncover that devotion to God,
the One, the Absolute indicates full freedom of any dogma. Humans, through
Islamic teachings, are guided to purify their hearts continuously to realize
spiritual freedom. This is understood to be the core wisdom behind the
"concepts" of all forms of worship in Islam. Every person is also invited to
investigate all the potentialities that s/he is endowed with spiritually and
physically and make good use of them in realizing the ultimate goal of human
existence. As such, the teachings stimulate humans to perceive themselves
justly by striking a balance between the divinity within, the origin "the One
Soul" that transcends gender on one hand, and the factual potentialities and
capabilities of their physical existence, on the other.
The dynamic and balanced interaction
between the two levels of existence in each human would produce infinite numbers
of unique human journeys. Being a male or a female is a true factor within a
wholesome reality.
In other words, in Islamic teachings there
are no traces for predetermined images or prototypes that humans need to fit
into for the mere fact of being males or females. Rather, there are truths that
each can live according to, freely and interact with, vigorously. Being "human"
truly is the general self-image that teachings of Islam call upon all people to
realize.
The word Insan in Arabic means
humankind, male and female. It is used 58 times in the Holy Qur'an to be
pointing to "humankind" in general. The overall meanings included in all the
verses uncover that Al Insan is a "quality" of creation and a "potentiality"
that exists in all humans. When wo/man perceives her/himself as Insan or works
for being an Insan s/he would go through a long journey of self-knowledge and
self-realization. The Holy Qur'an uncovers all the attributes of humankind Al
Insan:
1-S/he is distinct among creatures:
We have honored the
children of Adam (HQ: 17: 70)
We did indeed offer the
Trust to the Heavens and the Earth and the Mountains; but they refused to
undertake it, being afraid thereof: but Al Insan5
undertook it; (HQ: 33: 72)
We are nearer to her/him
than (her/his) jugular vein.(HQ: 50: 16)
2- S/he strives for attaining closeness
to God :
O thou Al Insan! Verily
thou art ever toiling on towards thy Lord - painfully toiling - but thou shalt
meet Him.(HQ: 84: 6)
3- S/he has an earthly nature with all
its attributes, positive and negative:
We created Al Insan from
sounding clay, from mud moulded into shape;(HQ: 15: 26)
in order to try her/him:
so We gave her/him (the gifts), of Hearing and Sight.(HQ: 76: 2)
He has created Al Insan:
He has taught her/him speech (and Intelligence). (HQ: 55: 3, 4)
Verily, Al Insan is given
up to injustice and ingratitude.(HQ: 14: 34)
4- S/he is destined to the Last
Judgement:
That Day will Al Insan be
told (all) that s/he put forward, and all that s/he put back.(HQ: 75: 13)
Hence, Islamic teachings guide humans to
perceive themselves from the perspective of their spiritual origin. Their means
for keeping up their spiritual identity vivid is to discern the wisdom behind
all creation and make the best use of it.
Wo/Men who celebrate the
praises of Allah, standing, sitting, and lying down on their sides, and
contemplate the (wonders of) creation in the heavens and the earth, (with the
thought): "Our Lord! not for naught hast thou created (all) this! (HQ: 3: 191)
Within that approach the degree of
intelligence; talents; health; education; social, economic or political status,
are things that humans are guided to make full use of. From that perspective
Islamic teachings so strongly urge for seeking knowledge with stress that it is
the right and the duty also of every human being. Prophet Mohammad says it
explicitly, " seeking knowledge is a religious duty for each Moslem, male or
female. He also commands parents not to practice any form of gender
discrimination while bringing up their children. He says that a parent who
honors his daughter and does not prefer his son to her (in any matter) will
enter Paradise.
To sum up, when teachings of Islam
guide people to be devout Servants of God, they free them totally from any
dogmatic images of themselves. The self-image that is recommended is regarding
oneself as a "human being", Insan. There are no prefixed images, then, that
wo/man are guided to fit in arbitrarily. Rather, there is awareness that being
Insan is a high quality of existence that humans are potentialized to realize.
The way to fulfil it is to work for realizing spiritual freedom and investing
God's endowments fully. The sign of a good believer in Islam is to be grateful
shakir to the Divine. This word in Arabic implies the nature of healthy growth
that is the fruit of making the best use of all potentialities, spiritually and
physically.
3-Inner Spiritual
Freedom leads women to betterment of performing their roles as mothers, wives,
daughters and/or leaders in any field.
We can see in our daily lives conflicts
of different degrees that stem, among so many things, from the predetermined
"prototypes" that societies, traditions or cultures indirectly push humans to
internalize. In some societies, for example, women internalize the idea that
their prime role in life is to be subordinate to their husbands. The stereotype
of a "good wife" as the one that is blindly obedient to her husband reaches a
degree of a dogma. To fit into such a stereotype, women find that they
accordingly suppress many of their individual capabilities in favor of the
priorities in life where on the top is what the husband decides. Most of the
time priorities are arranged according to his own agenda because he himslef is
brought up to believe that women are subordinate to men. Being that marginalized
women suffer with different degrees because their capabilities are not made good
use of. The result is psychological imbalance in their relations with husbands
and children.
On the other side of the picture we find
among "modern" classes a different kind of imbalance. Women put "self
realization" (in the sense of having economic independence, career..etc.) as a
top priority. In practical life conflicts emerge between that goal and duties
towards husbands and children. Women are too overloaded and torn to set balance.
Many times they are obliged to sacrifice family life. It is known that the
percentage of divorce in modern societies is increasing.
The two opposite examples are two sides of
one coin. In both cases the imbalance echoes a deficiency in the way humans
approach their "roles" in life. In the first case where women are regarded as
mere subordinate, injustice takes place because their capabilities as humans are
overlooked. In such societies generally teachings of religion are misrepresented
to serve the interest of one party (men) against the other (women). Other
injustices are triggered. Parents, for instance, in some areas do not give equal
care to educate their daughters. They assume that her "role" in life as a wife
or mother does not need the trouble they might face for educating her, (the
percent of illiteracy is higher among females than males in developing
countries). In the opposite example imbalance takes place because one element of
life; "self realization" is given an absolute value. Consequently it swallows
all other variables and, again, reduces a woman into a "role" that is over
imposed upon her and she loses inner freedom, in her rushing to fit into it. She
goes into a kind of a maze where she does not know how to get out from.
Teachings of Islam guide humans to a way
of life where they are prepared to play many different roles that all go in
harmony when wo/man is spiritually free. Spiritual freedom leads naturally to
balance while performing all roles. This is very practical because the roles
that humans are to perform are not over imposed, nor rigid or predetermined.
Within the ultimate goal of existence where humans are guided to realize inner
freedom and develop all factual capabilities, they get more qualified for giving
every aspect of life its due, not more not less. Conflict happens not because
"roles" are really in conflict but because humans lose the inner focus. As a
result each role takes more or less than what it actually deserves. The person
her/himself suffers because the outer imbalance leads to lack of inner freedom.
So the spiritual part of her/him cries for being nurtured but s/he cannot hear
it being involved in the fog and noise of matter. Accordingly the physical
existence gets grossed and egoistic inclinations get too huge to give any care
or justice to others' rights or needs. S/he loses all inner peace and harmony.
Qur'an points to this truth when saying,
Allah puts forth a Parable
- a man belonging to many partners at variance with each other, and a man
belonging entirely to one master: are those two equal in comparison? - (HQ: 39:
29).
The many partners are the "roles" that are
given absolute value, so each opposes the other because each wants to enslave
human to serve it alone. The way out is when humans are devoted entirely to one
master, so each role fits into the whole peacefully. All teachings of Islam
guide to inner peace. Peace is the fruit of setting the balance. Balance is set
when all roles are seen as "means" for realizing the ultimate goal of existence.
From that perspective when consulting
Islamic teachings concerning women we can clearly see that they are manifold.
With inner freedom a woman would investigate the role(s) she would perform
within given circumstances, freely. She would be more capable to arrange
priorities justly in a way that keeps the balance by giving each role its due.
The balance as such is not quantitative, but rather an inner aspiration for
justice that would reflect on her attitude towards her own self and others
equally and within a focus of keeping up inner freedom. Accordingly there would
not be prototypes for women's roles but quite a great number of models that
represent the sum total of persons who express inner freedom through the actual
circumstances of each. Each model would be as unique as the fingerprints of each
human being. The criteria of judging are the efficiency of performing each role
and how a woman is qualified for this role or that. Also what she CHOOSES
FREELY, regardless of what "others" try to impose. The Holy Qur'an says,
On no soul doth Allah
place a burden greater than it can bear. (HQ: 2: 286)
And a prophetic Divine Hadith Hadith Qudsi
says, "each human being will be asked (in the Day of Judgement) about the way
s/he spent her/his money, health, knowledge (namely, whole life)". The holy
sayings uncover an eternal law: the point of consideration when a human's strife
on earth is evaluated is the extent to which s/he made good use of God's
endowments to her/him. The good or bad use implies the direction s/he took;
being a devout Servant of God or serving the aspirations of the limited physical
ego. The burden that one carries is her/his money, health, knowledge, and any
means in one's life. It does not matter if they are many or few capabilities but
what matters is the "quality" of using them.
So an Islamic approach to
women's role(s) in life opens the way wide to their share in all fields within
the following principles:
1-The criteria of judging their capability
or incapability of sharing in any activity are based on factual knowledge not
dogmas or predetermined and over imposed decisions. In that respect scientific
researches in many domains are required to investigate the extent to which
biological attributes have/have-not effects on women's faculties needed for some
fields or others. This rule applies on both individual and collective basis.
2-There is no role in life that deserves
to be honored or dishonored for its own sake. Each role, big or small, is
respected as long as it is the free choice of every person and she performs it
conscientiously with a spirit of love, generosity, and selflessness. While no
one is deprived arbitrarily from performing any role, differentiation of roles
must be looked upon from the perspective of integration and cooperation.
Regarding any role in life as humiliating in itself is the result of the
measurements of material arrogance. Spirituality regards all roles as kinds of
different "services"; each is fully appreciated.
3-The message that a woman carries as a
"wife" and/or a "mother" is very important and deserves good care from the side
of both males and females. Prophet Mohammad's guidance to women to obey their
husbands does not imply limiting their roles in life to being wives, nor giving
men free hand to dominate their wives unjustly. It is rather an attraction to
both men and women to realize that their marriage relation is given a touch of
holiness through which they can both attain spiritually. To obey her husband is
guidance to every wife to respect that kind of relation. The same guidance is
directed to husbands when the prophet says, "the best of you are those who are
good to their wives " & "take good care of women (mothers, daughters, wives).
Care does not imply domination or superiority for women are also guided to take
care. From the same perspective, the Prophet bestows great honor on motherhood
when he says, "The Garden is most accessible to mothers". Definitely motherhood
in that context does not imply the mere biological faculty of giving birth to
children. It is a spiritual status that a mother would attain because she
handles that "role" in life from the perspective of devotion to God alone and
not any egoistic motivations. Certainly the prophetic Hadith does not imply that
fathers are not accessible to the Garden.
To sum up, teachings of Islam do
not impose predetermined or rigid roles on women, nor deprive them from
performing others. The teachings rather give open, wide and dynamic scope of
roles. The core point is that humans are urged and encouraged to make good use
of all their actual capabilities freely and invest them in realizing the
ultimate goal of their existence. Each can realize the ultimate goal of her/his
existence through a very unique way that is the fruit of inner spiritual freedom
expressed through her/his own individual capabilities and given circumstances.
Each role(s) is seen as honorable when a woman makes of it a "means" for being a
devout Servant of God. To fulfil that truly, she would perform it with due
knowledge, conscientiousness and sincerity.
4-This approach to the
roles of women would affect societies positively through new models of human
development.
Models of national development
in different societies express generally the aspirations of individuals
according to the way they approach life. The "goals" that each nation appoints
are listed in accordance with how people arrange their "priorities" and the
"means" by which they plan to fulfil them. Models of development vary
considerably because of value differences in any society. What is common among
most models of social and economic growth is that all of them try to make full
use of natural and human resources towards a purposeful change that each nation
plan. In a society that makes of materialistic aspirations absolute goals,
priorities are given to satisfying hedonistic and egoistic motivations.
Within a kind of culture where physical
aspirations are paramount wo/men are not given good chances for realizing
themselves as spirits. Their physical interests grow too many and too demanding
to give any care to their spiritual essence. When the different roles they
perform are handled from the perspective of matter alone conflicts naturally
emerge, not only among competitors but also with each human individual and
her/his own self.
An Islamic perspective to
national development is broadly an approach where:
1-The supreme goal is to generate an
environment where all humans are supported to be realized spiritually. Spiritual
motivations would help each one discover the mission s/he is endowed with
fulfilling.
2-Priorities are given to investigating
means and tools that help all humans, of all spiritual grades, within variance
of roles, to set balance between their spiritual goals and those necessary for
worldly life.
3-Natural and human potentials are
regarded as endowments of God to humans and, hence, a responsibility to be
shouldered. The Prophet says each of you (men and women) shoulder the
responsibilities of taking good care of whatever is under her/his auspices.
4-The means to realize any goal should be
honorable and honest.
Setting balance in approaching the
"concept" of development would affect women positively. A society where
spiritual freedom is enhanced would be very fair in giving women due respect. It
would put in its plan a consideration for investigating the capabilities of
women, giving them equal rights and concurrently help them fulfil their role(s)
without falling in conflict. The roles would never be over imposed but rather
discovered flexibly with full respect to all roles.
As such An Islamic program of development
concerning education would give equal interest in presenting the best education
to girls and boys. There would be special programs of education planned to push
girls to be aware of their humanity as a base and of their femininity as a gift
of God that needs respect and care. With spiritual freedom enhanced for all,
girls are brought up with self-esteem and confidence. Boys likewise would be
brought up to regard girls as equal but not necessarily uniform for there is
awareness that humanity is the very broad range that allows individual
differences to be integrative. Boys would be taught that their masculinity is
not superiority but a kind of responsibility that they share within a wholesome
human mission. Young girls, as such would be brought up to be prepared for their
roles as mothers as well as sharers in any other activities, small or big as
their capabilities allow. They would be supported by regulations of societies to
perform all roles in full harmony.
To sum up, the notion of
development as seen from an Islamic Sufi perspective would welcome all current
programs, world wide, that enhance equality of both sexes in chances of
education, employment, political rights and leadership. That is because Islamic
teachings stress the concept of justice with all its dimensions and applications
guiding that any decision should be based on factual basis, not dogma or
prejudices of any kind. So, many researches in all fields are required where the
results are used as pointers for making any decisions when issuing any
regulations. Justice does not imply over imposed uniformity. Justice implies
guarantees to equal chances when investigating potentialities and capabilities;
education and training; and ensuring that women are not deprived from performing
any role(s) in society for the mere sake of being a "woman".
General Conclusion
A Sufi approach for rediscovering women's
way of expressing the Divine is in full harmony with natural potentialities of
humans, spiritually and physically. It calls upon humans, males and females, to
attain spiritual freedom and, hence, they can always discover new ways for human
realization. Teachings of Islam, as read from a Sufi perspective guide humans to
the Path of spiritual freedom that starts by working for setting Balance between
their transcendental heavenly origin and factual physical capabilities. Balance,
on one hand, implies that they purify themselves continuously from dogmas,
stagnant traditions, and over imposed images of any kind. On the other hand they
are responsible for making optimum use of all God's endowments to them in
earthly life. As such, they should be keen on making use of faculties of
intelligence, talents, creativity and all other capabilities in developing their
life. Within that frame of reference different injustices towards women would
disappear. They would have a better chance for performing their roles more
efficiently and in full harmony.
Because some of the dogmas that hinder
women from being justly treated are mistakenly ascribed to religions, in general
and Islam in particular, the approach presented herein calls for new
interpretations of Scripture within some basic principles of Islam:
-The Holy Qur'an and the life of the
Prophet Muhammad never bestow any superiority or inferiority of any kind to
humans depending on biological dimensions.
-The Path to spiritual realization does
not depend upon gender but rather on whether human grows spiritually or not.
Guidance is there for all.
-The responsibility that every human being
shoulders is always in proportion with the God gifted endowments added to the
extent to which s/he works her/his will. As such journeys to spiritual
realization are innumerable; each is very unique.
-The criteria of reference- when
determining the roles that wo/men are supposed to perform- are: efficiency,
capability, given circumstances not gender.
-No one has the right to dominate or
exploit another under any label. Rather each one has a duty to fulfil towards
the welfare of all; and has a right to be cared for.
Because Sufism is generally defined as the
essence of Islam, Sufis can play a major role in developing new approaches to
Islamic teachings to set Balance on different levels. The HolyQur'an and
Prophetic Sunna can inspire pure hearts, open minds, and knowledgeable people
infinitely. They still contain intact treasuries.
* Aisha Rafea is the
daughter of Master Rafea M. Rafea, an Egyptian prominent Sufi (1903-1970).
She is a writer with special interest in spiritual culture and literature.
She has an MA in mass communication from the American University in Cairo.
1 Mary Daly, After
the Death of God the Father, 1971, Documents from the Women's Liberation
Movement, An On-line Archival Collection, Special Collections Library, Duke
University. http://scriptorium.lib.duke.edu/wlm/after/
2 (Palmer &Colton:
p. 482). History of the Modern World, R.R. Palmer and Joel Colton, 1987, New
York, Alfred A. Knopf
3 Day of Forgiveness
of Great Jubilee, Angelus March, 12, 2000, http://www.cin.org/jp000312.html
4 In the original
Qur'an in Arabic the word is "Nafs" which means soul. Some translations
include the word "Nafs" as "single person" pointing to Adam, and Eve as "his
mate". Since the verse does not say that explicitly, we prefer to translate
"Nafs" as "Soul" to be pointing to the "origin" of humankind in general
regardless of gender.
5 The word Insan is
put instead of "man" because it better expresses the fact thatQur'an points
to humanity in general. Even though the word "man" is used also to mean
humans, male and female, the word Insan sends away any confusion. Note that
the use of pronouns can be safely written s/he; her/him; her/his.
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